With 2013 almost over it’s about time to reflect on everything that’s happened in the last 365 days or so. I’ve had a busy year. Most people say that but compared to my previous years this one takes the cake.
- I changed from full-time to part-time at work
- I started at Cleveland Chiropractic College to finish up my undergrad work
- It snowed… a LOT (cleaning up feet upon feet of snow alone sucks)
- I was snowed in at work so patients would have the care they deserve
- I had a birthday (duh)
- I was accepted into the doctorate program
- I left my job completely to start school full time
- I put two dogs down for serious health reasons just a few weeks apart
- I filed for divorce (which wasn’t exactly smooth)
- I lost two dogs in the split (still have my little cuddle buddy though)
- I lost a best friend that had been by my side for years
- I’ve learned how hard it is to take care of a house completely alone (although it’s not changed that much)
- I’ve started the doctorate program at Cleveland University Kansas City (they got university status in January)
- I’ve made numerous new friends
- I’ve had more than a few first dates
- I’ve found a new best friend and confidant
- I’ve learned that I’m not as strong as people believe I am but I’m stronger than I think
- I’ve been able to check several items off of my bucket list
- I’ve learned that I like quiet
Overall I think that it’s been a very good year. Lots of changes but change is good. Being able to adapt to those changes is better. I’m stronger for everything that I’ve experienced and as much as I’d like to say that I would rather have had a quiet year I wouldn’t change it for anything. I finally look forward to the future and welcome it and all that it brings.
Stress is a funny thing. Sometimes it presents as binge eating (as some of my classmates can attest to), binge drinking, crying, hiding, over-sleeping, and even random acts of escape. Everyone handles stress differently. I think it’s as much the kind of stress as it is the kind of person you are. I have eight finals that will span just over week. Before I started my first doctorate trimester I asked a friend that had just finished her first tri(mester) for some idea of what I could expect. Her answer was “lots of wine and tears.” I thought she was joking. I had no idea how right she was. A lady at school that specializes in dealing with the mess that all of us students can be offered these words of wisdom, “tell your loved ones that their plans for gatherings should be fluid and make sure they understand that holidays and birthdays will have to happen even if you can’t attend.” Again I thought she was joking to a degree. I was wrong again.
Drinking helps for some but there’s a fine line when that can become dangerous. Some of my colleagues have turned to spirituality. Since I’ve never actively embraced a religion this one is hard for me, although mediation and praying the mala helps me to decompress. If you’re not familiar with a mala it’s similar to the Catholic rosary but based in Buddhism. It’s composed of 108 beads and each one is passed through the fingers (depending on what you’re praying for or focusing on you would use different fingers). It’s to focus on a meditative thought. This link can help to explain it a bit better.
Now if you’ll excuse me I have some beads to focus on.
In the midst of studying for tomorrow’s organic chemistry final I decided my fellow classmates needed some funnies to break up the stress.
It is indeed my birthday and for this special day I get to work… all day. Oh! And study for a test I have to take tomorrow and really know almost nothing on said test. So with that I leave you with comic funnies.
Monday was a good day. My classes weren’t bad, the DC (doctor of chiropractic) kids are on spring break so it’s undergrads only on campus, and I got an email that made me smile. My admissions advisor let me know that with the posting of the grades from the previous module my admissions packet was in the hands of the committee. Up until this point I think I’m about the only student that doesn’t have an official acceptance to the doctorate program. NO LONGER IS THIS TRUE!!
I have to admit that I really love that this school is so very communication oriented. Most places would have let me know that I was accepted via the usual snail mail packet of fun. Nope. Not Cleveland Chiropractic College. I got a personal phone call to congratulate me. Now I can go to the registration luncheon (free food on my birthday no less) and really feel like I belong with the rest of my classmates. I will be starting the very intense twelve trimester program this fall. So if you’ve seen me since January and thought to yourself that I was just a bit under pressure you’ve just encountered the tip of the iceberg I’m afraid.
It’s going to be one heck of a ride!